Coincidences!!! It's just plain freaky!!!

2008-07-20 @ 2:09 a.m.

The weirdest thing is happening. One might see it as mere coincidences. But if it happens too frequently, it’s just freaky.

New people being introduced in my life. That’s of course is a norm.

So, giving them snippets of my life and friends. That’s part of the process. To determine the outcome and such.

Somehow or rather, a certain someone’s name, who kinda at that point of time was not really a major part of my life, was mention. Over and over and over again. Him and the others as well. After which, one fine day, he called up to say he was somewhere near. And met up with him. To talk for few mins. That’s it. It was the beginning of a chain of very freaky coincidences.

Here’s a small fact: After a very long time of not seeing him, he looks hot. But for just for a split second

Within the course of the next few days, his name got mention a few more times to those new friends. Just because, I was gushing and they missed out on getting to see the person that got me too gushed. They were intrigued.

What happen then? We (the new friends and me) bump into him and another of his friend at the place that once upon a time was frequented by a whole lot bunch of us. It was THE place.

Cut the whole story short, ever since then, he has been around in my life. And all of which, aside from one or two, was never planned. Just bumping into each other. And having joined the company, and having a good laugh. Maybe it may not sound that freaky when you are reading this, but the chain of events that got played definitely was. But then again, I might just be reading too much into the whole thing. But my life has never been one that is filled with random incidences. At the end of the day, the dots will be connected and the bigger picture all clear in front of me.

The most interesting part was bumping into his mom. The last time I saw her was a very long time ago. Before our friendship change drastically....from being a major part of my life to being just someone who you very rarely sees anymore. And then, just as recently as how he is popping around in my life, I bump into his mom!!! It may seems to be nothing, but the whole stretch of “interesting” events that recently happen, and now this, it got me freaked out!!!
I HOPE FOR MY OWN SAKE...I AM READING TOO MUCH INTO THE WHOLE SITUATION!!!

"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing, and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares."--Henri Nouwen, Out of Solitude

P.S.: And I am glad that i have met with those friends in this lifetime.